OK... I'm 5ft 10, dark hair and beard; a chubby guy (48ch, 43w). I'm very tactile and like to cuddle guys - to lie in bed with you, holding you to my big hairy chest in my big strong arms. :)

I especially like guys younger than myself, and I'm into slim, toned guys - or average-size guys. Though I'm big myself I don't really fancy other chubby lads, so I'm really lookin for something slimmer (sorry if that offends anyone; I don't mean to. I'm just being honest)

I fit well into the big brother/mentor role. I'm sorted, sensible, intelligent, quiet, with a decent job which I enjoy. I have great friends and like chilling out with them - theatre, cinema, eating out etc. The only bit that isn't really working in my life right now is that I dont have any guys to put my arms round and cuddle when I feel like it. So thats what I'm lookin for.

I'm trying to be really honest here. Is any of it appealing to you? I'm not looking for a relationship as such - just a guy (or a few guys!) who will meet up from time to time and have a hug and a cuddle in bed, maybe a bit of massage etc., and chat a bit of a giggle as we lie together in bed. If a relationship happens that's fine - I'm not against it. But I like my independence too and enjoy spending time alone so its not essential.

I'm NOT into anal sex. In fact sex is quite low down my list. Its more companionship I'm wanting - but I do get turned on by a nice guy, obviously. 8) Sexually I can be a bit dominant if that appeals to you - but its not essential.

So... get in touch. We could be cuddling up together in my nice warm bed here tonight! :))

Libra

Heavyset

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Never Married

No

No

Arms

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Black

Cat

No

University Degree

Full-time

Politics / Government

Voluntary Sector (charity)

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly

Music, Movies, Theater, Volunteering

Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Friendly, Cool

Agnostic

Never

Liberal

Just trying to be happy I suppose. I like making others feel good as well,

Dry / Sarcastic, Sadistic

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Soaps

Action, Comedy, Drama, Thriller

Pop, Classical

Biography, Fiction, Political

Night out with mates. Just having a laugh.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness

Honesty - a guy that is happy to share his emotions and is always on my wavelength. I do prefer younger, slimmer lads - and of course he has to be up for a bit of a cuddle. lol

Friend, Date, Intimate